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Nearly every time you see him he's laughing or at least smiling And he makes everyone else around him feel like smiling He's the Dalai Lama the spiritual and temporal leader of Tibet a Nobel Prize winner and an increasingly popular speaker and statesman What's he'll tell you that happiness is the purpose of life and that the very motion of our life is towards happiness How to get there has always been the uestion He's tried to answer it before but he's never had the help of a psychiatrist to get the message across in a context we can easily understand Through conversations stories and meditations the Dalai Lama shows us how to defeat day to day anxiety insecurity anger and discouragement Together with Dr Cutler he explores many facets of everyday life including relationships loss and the pursuit of wealth to illustrate how to ride through life's obstacles on a deep and abiding source of inner peace

10 thoughts on “The Art of Happiness A Handbook for Living

  1. says:

    Despite the 'author' being the Dalia Lama this book was actually written by a Western Psychologist named Howard Cutler It is mostly presented as interviews or meetings between himself and the Dalai Lama I really enjoyed the segments that were pure uotes from the Dalai Lama but found myself constantly frustrated by Cutler's uestions and obviously inserted after the fact 'summaries' of the responses I would paraphrase the entire book like thisCutler So what can every person do to be happy?Dalai Lama Well this is a really complicated uestion and we need to look at specific cases in order to answer it fully Here are a few basic guidelines Cutler Yeah OK so can you give me 3 steps that everyone can do to be happy?Dalai Lama I can hear him sighing through the pages Yes well I've given you some basic guidelines but it's not a simple 3 step process Here are some things to consider in these situationsetcCutler just seemed so stuck in his Western we can make an algorithm for happiness and box it up neatly and put it on the shelf ways and it's just not that simple

  2. says:

    I first read this book as a freshman in high school but I've read it again at least twice I'm not sure how it initially started but I've always been fascinated by the Dalai Lama of Tibet The I read about him the I'm in awe of him While I recommend reading his biography first this specific book is about the concept of happiness and how we attain it It's not a self help book but rather a book about how the Dalai Lama believes that people inheritantly have the ability to find happiness but we obstruct it with our immaterial and superficial beliefs It made me realize how much society corrupts people's values On a personal level it made me re evaluate my life and my values I was also amazed at how much his beliefs correlate with Native American traditional beliefs This is one of those few books that I find myself re opening from time to time

  3. says:

    This book is actually written by a psychiatrist and includes extensive interviews with the Dalai Lama about how to be a generally happier person Parts of the book are really great and a couple of sections are a little bland mostly depending on what uestions the author is asking The Dalai Lama's amazing traits come across throughout however His pragmatic logical and yet also spiritual approach to everything

  4. says:

    Dalai Lama believes in fundamental goodness in all human beings in the value of compassion and kindness and a sense of commonality among all living creaturesHappiness is determined by one's state of mind than by external eventsExcessive desire leads to greed which leads to frustration disappointment problems and unhappinessTrue antidote of greee is contentment to appreciate what we already haveRelationships are not about just knowing people and superficial exchange but to really share deepest problems and concerns in forming intimate friendships Dalai Lama recommends maintaining closeness with as many people as possible aim to connect with everyone in some wayConcepts of intimacy vary among cultures Western too caught up in finding one special person or romantic partner who we hope will heal our loneliness yet prop up our illusion that we are still independentIf we think of suffering as something unnatural something that we shouldn't be experiencing then it's not much of a leap to begin to look for someone to blame for our suffering If I'm unhappy then I must be the victim of someone or something As long as we view suffering as an unnatural state an abnormal condition that we fear avoid and reject we will never uproot the causes of suffering and begin to live a happier lifeIt is entirely appropriate to seek out causes of our problems searching for solutions on all levels global societal familial and individual Shifting to wider perspective realizing there are many people who have gone through similar worse experiences can be very helpfulIf you learn to develp patience and tolerance toward your enemies then everything else bcomes easier your compassion towards all others begins to flow naturally Compassion is the essence of a spiritual life The enemy is the necessary condition for practicing patience Friends don't often test us so our enemy is a great teacherFlexibility of the mind those most adaptable to change will survive best

  5. says:

    The Moms was watching a movie that was so filled with awkward and embarrassing social interaction that I cast desperately about me for something else to do Near at hand was The Art of Happiness by Dolly and some doctor guy I picked it up and began to read I'm about half way through guess I'm 50% enlightened and it's really uite good Except for the parts that are stupid or wrong The problem is not so much what the Big D has to say but the doctor guy's interpretation or amplification That's the problem with amplification there can be a lot of distortion which can sound really cool if your Jimi Hendrix otherwise not so much He makes what I feel are some pretty feeble attempts to support the assertions with scientific studies in pseudo sciences like psychology sociology and neurology Isn't it enough that it's true? Do you have to have proof as well? The proof is in the pudding and the world would be a pretty tasty place if everyone implemented the best parts of the ideas expressed in this book How was that for a strained analogy? You don't have to be a Buddhist to get some really good stuff out of this book Which is good because I HATE cows

  6. says:

    I love the Dalai Lama and everything he says in this book However Cutler's input mostly detracts from the teachings of the Dalai Lama At best he makes small often insignificant links between the Dalai Lama's point and western science Like how he made the connection between Buddhism's idea of training the mind to the scientific idea of plasticity which proves that indeed you can train the mind Was that ever really a uestion though? I didn't need to be convinced of that At worst he purposefully makes himself a sitting duck for how not to be and then contrasts his own folly with the wise teachings of the Dalai Lama While real life examples do make the sometimes abstract points of the Dalai Lama seem accessible it goes overboard Also his uestions often take the conversation with the Dalai Lama in a completely different often obvious and tiresome direction than I was hoping With the conversation format there were great opportunities to enter into intellectual debate and come to a complex understanding between two viewpoints Instead Cutler asked childish simple uestions that barely skimmed the surface of the Dalai Lama's well thought out discourse and no deeper understanding was gained by Cutler's interruptions Overall would have loved this book as solo meditations by the Dalai Lama or maybe with an interviewer who had better uestions and comments

  7. says:

    DNF 15%I mistakenly thought this was a book by His Holiness the Dalai Lama who is listed as one of the authors or the only authors in some book databases but it is not This book was written by Howard C Cutler a psychiatrist who spent one week with the Dalai Lama and then used his interviews with the Dalai Lama as a basis for this bookNow once I found out that I was mislead by the book I still wanted to read on and see what the author had to say Unfortunately I was uickly put off by two in my opinion major logical flaws in the construction of the book's premise1 The author provides the following motivation behind writing the book When I initially conceived of this book I envisioned a conventional self help format in which the Dalai Lama would present clear and simple solutions to all life’s problems I felt that using my background in psychiatry I could codify his views in a set of easy instructions on how to conduct one’s daily life By the end of our series of meetings I had given up on that idea I found that his approach encompassed a much broader and complex paradigm incorporating all the nuance richness and complexity that life has to offerYou see my problem is that the Dalai Lama's books speeches and other communications are pretty easy to understand He has a particular skill to explain complex issues in simple terms but then simplicity is one of the essential elements in his way of lifeThe other issue I had with the author's statement is that I find the approach of trying to create a dogma from a Buddhist point of view a rather ridiculous idea If there ever was a spritual teaching whose essence is that it is wholly un dogmatic and un codified it would be Buddhism but then maybe I am just getting the wrong end of the stick 2 The author's approach in this book is to try and combine Western science with the Dalai Lama's interpretationsteachings Again this is a flawed approach when early on in the book the author includes the following uotation In trying to determine the source of one’s problems it seems that the Western approach differs in some respects from the Buddhist approach Underlying all Western modes of analysis is a very strong rationalistic tendency – an assumption that everything can be accounted for And on top of that there are constraints created by certain premises that are taken for grantedBasically the Dalai Lama tried to explain that a Western approach which is mostly based on science is restricted in its understanding of the human condition So why the author tries to combine or back up the topics discussed from a Buddhist perspective in this book with references to Western scientific research for which he often does not cite sources is totally beyond meCan't recommend this at all

  8. says:

    This is a book that has to be read slowly and with determination with many pauses for looking off into the distance deep in thought It is not BY the Dalai Lama so much as it is about the Dalai Lama interviews with him thoughts on his beliefs and practices It took me a long time to get through but I really enjoyed it I think that if everyone tried to fit a little Buddhism into their lives not a little Buddhist but a little BuddhISM we would all be much calmer and happier patient and understanding

  9. says:

    This book always brings me a lot of peace when I read it It calms me down and puts me at ease I actually bought this book for josh but spent a lot of time reading it myself and its very enjoyable remind you about all the little good things in life and about what really matters

  10. says:

    Howard Cutler a psychiatrist does several interviews with the Dalai Lama and then writes this book Umm I was underwhelmed I do appreciate what the Dalai Lama teaches but this book didn't really live up to the hype If you know absolutely nothing about the Dalai Lama you might get a starter course from this book But for me it wasn't anything new I think part of the problem was Howard I felt that he was a bit silly at times and shallow at others and just irritating most of the time2 Stars Blah It didn't do anything for me